Dating game mind
Let’s analyze what took place so you can avoid mind games like this in the future.
Grab your cup of coffee or glass of wine, ladies and gentlemen, because we’re about to get into it!However, days often pass and you wonder whether you should call, or you debate whether you should wait another day or two.Finally, cut to Friday or Saturday, and your date, it turns out, has made other plans.In person, he’d say things like, “I really like you a lot”, “I enjoy your company, we have fun together”, and “You’re really easy to talk to”.I got tired of the hot and cold behavior, and I texted him (as he never seemed to want to call me or really spend any time with me).In this article, I’m focusing on the way men and women lie to their dates and end up leading them on when they’re not actually interested.
What’s one of the most frequent lies men and women use?
I wrote,”I’m getting the hint, and I won’t be bothering you anymore.” ◊♦◊Dear Betsy, This guy liked you when he was with you, but when you were out of sight, you were not on his mind.
He was casual about dating, and he was casual about your feelings.
If you’re easygoing, you probably don’t need to have plans set in stone.
But if you’re more of an organized planner who likes to have dates set in advance, tell your date the truth outright – and don’t apologize for who you are!
You feel frustrated because you’ve been strung along and left without plans at the last minute.